Mother, an inspiration for us all
By: Mukhtar Ahmad Qureshi
During this National Women’s Day 2025, I am particularly thankful to my mother, Amina Begum. Despite not being well educated, her wisdom, dedication, and unwavering belief in the power of knowledge made her the most exceptional teacher I have ever encountered.
I want to tell you a story today, the one that inspired me as a teacher and writer is full of resilience with courage sacrifice. It’s not just my recognition of her that this is a symbol of the many mothers who, even when they feel like it, make sure their children have bright futures.
The Silent Weapon of Education:
If my mother hadn’t taught me, where would I be without education? In the customary sense, she was not literate, having never gone to school, nor read books or composed letters. Nevertheless, she had an exceptional intuition and insight that is not typically found in those who possess advanced degrees of education.
Education was a necessity for me, my family, and the general public, as she understood it.'”. At a time when most people saw education as secondary, my mother placed greater importance on learning.
Memories of the cold winter mornings were vivid, as I woke up with a longing to sleep. She was already awake and gently urging me to get ready for school, getting my books ready and making sure I had everything they needed. My studies were never hindered by her struggles.
Whenever my father was at work, she managed the household without any assistance and ensured that I had no reason to neglect my education. My success today was due to her making sacrifices, which were often overlooked.
A Mother, A Mentor, An Objector, Amina Begum:
Many people believe that only well-educated parents can steer their children in the right direction. Wisdom, as my mother emphasized, is not achieved through degrees; rather it comes from experience, love, and an unwavering commitment to one’s children.
Although she never had access to my schoolbooks, her curiosity about my lessons was always present. She taught me how to speak, even though she didn’t write any essays for it. Though her subject was philosophy, she imparted life lessons through her everyday teachings.
She taught me a valuable lesson about self-control and hard work. “Only through hard work and dedication can we earn respect and peace,” she said, and I live by these words every day.
The Day I Discovered Her Uncommon Strength:
One of the most important events in my life is that I was awarded an academic accolade. I received congratulations from everyone at school, my teachers praised me, and my friends showed their approval. Witnessing my mother’s silent pride and happiness made me realize that this victory was as strong as mine. I couldn’t help but feel something powerful.
Her sacrifices were voluntary and unrequited. She was never in search of recognition.’ The only thing she cared about was seeing her children succeed.
On that day, I promised to carry on the values she had taught me. Rather than studying for academic qualifications or employment, I would prefer to make an impact on others, just like how mine had been.'”.
Gratitude beyond words:
Despite my experiences as an educator, writer and learner, I feel a deep sense of gratitude and thankfulness in the knowledge I possess. It’s possible that my students were inspired by me first, and she was the reason.
Amina Begum, my beloved mother:
My first teacher was someone I would like to thank.
You have my thanks for believing in me when no one else shares the same beliefs.
We appreciate you taking time to educate us in our house, even during difficult times. Thank you so much.
Thank you for your silent sacrifices, endless patience and unconditional love.
My life is narrated by you, but your teachings are more than just pen holding.
My message to you, The Reader:.
In the midst of reading this, I encourage you to reflect on the women who have played a significant role in shaping your life, whether it be your mother, grandmother, sister, or teacher. Women are the ones who shape our lives, but their role is often overlooked.
Celebrate this National Women’s Day 2025 and honor not only the great women of India, like Sarojini Naidu, but also the women who come from our homes and inspire us with their love, sacrifice, and determination to shape our futures.
The Legacy of Education:
It’s not just about the schools, books, or degrees in education. The focus is on the principles we impart, the knowledge we exchange, and the legacy we leave behind.
Amina Begum, my mother, was the most exceptional teacher in my life, even though she wasn’t formally educated.
My mother’s influence will continue to affect every student, word in my writing, and person in all my life. This is her gift to the world, and I’m honored to carry it forward.
So, today, I celebrate her and every woman like her, women who may not always receive the recognition they deserve but who shape the world in ways that can never be measured.
Happy National Women’s Day 2025.
(The author is a teacher. He hails from Boniyar Baramulla)
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