Avoid worries
Mahfooz Ahmad Bakshi
Today we are worried about tomorrow, and tomorrow we will be worried about the next day. We always keep fear in our minds about the future, so we never let contentment live within us. Then we roam around and look for priests, molvis, etc. to check if someone has stolen our happiness with the help of black magic.
As a result, some priests, molvis, etc., take advantage of our misunderstandings about our lives and we bless their pockets. I mean nobody is using black magic on us but we ourselves have kicked off the felicity with us and we have given space to worries, fear, over thinking, anxieties, our hearts have only four chambers when we fill all of them with worries and fear then obviously there will be no space for felicity or joy.
But if we really choose to be happy and to get happier day by day, then we should flesh out all the worries and let happiness occupy the land of our hearts. All I want to say is that we should never ever worry about what tomorrow will bring. Live the movement and get ready for tomorrow.
We don’t know what will be on our tables tomorrow, but we do know that it’s better to eat anything on the table than die of starvation. It’s better to face challenges than to lose hope and give up, because we all know that after accomplishing every challenge there is a reward, but we also know that after giving up, there is no reward but spiritual death.
Have faith in the Almighty. He has planned everything and indeed, every single thing will be done according to his plan no matter what. He is the best planner, and he doesn’t want you to lose hope and fear tomorrow. Trust the almighty, and live today without fear or worry. Whatever tomorrow brings, it will bring the best. Inshallah. Tomorrow you might face chaos but if you keep faith in the Almighty, then you will understand that Allah (swt) examines his loved ones in many ways. Enjoy the time you are living in, look deep into life. It is most beautiful but often misunderstood!
Happiness is everywhere but the “Fear Of results” have blind folded us that’s why we remain sad every time. Staying happy doesn’t mean having a gorgeous house, Lamborghini car or a private jet. Staying happy means being fearless and anxiety free in a nutshell. Peace of mind and calmness of heart is the real happiness.
When we fear the consequences then we won’t even dare to move and when we don’t move how we can expect a victory. No one will bring you the food in your room always, you have to be ready to take challenges, face criticism, fight and win. To win all you need to do is to fight and to fight all you need to do is to stop worrying about losing, stop thinking about what tomorrow will bring, let’s suppose that tomorrow will bring tragedy for you but you don’t even know that after tomorrow you may get the whole package of happiness but if you let tomorrow’s tragedy Kill you then obviously you will lose the package.
What tomorrow will bring is the thought that stops everyone from achieving. If we take it positively then it is the thought that would play a key role in reaching to the pinnacle of success. It’s all about mindset. You let your opponent Win or you let them lose, it’s all about your mindset. Success is the mountain and everyone wants to climb it but you know why few people climb is because they are not tied up or they have not connected a heavy weight on their legs. People like me never even take a step forward because we have put so much weight on our shoulders. The weight of fear, weight of worry, weight of pressure, weight of tensions and weight of depression are the heaviest weights of the world which unfortunately is on my and on the shoulders of people like me.
Most extroverts turn into introverts and it’s one of the consequences of worrying about the future. Some even die because of tension of future and some attempts suicide due to stress and depression caused by worrying about future or the results over 700, 000 people die due to suicide every year.
Suicide is the fourth leading cause of death in 15-29-year-olds. Win or lose is a part of life. Sometimes you win and sometimes you lose so there is nothing to worry about dear depressed people. I’m telling you that you have to go through hell. You have to face a lot and you have to win.
Get out of your room and work for yourself, work for your future, don’t let the anxiety even look at you, turn your back to negativity and trust Allah, he is the only one who can give you a helping hand and bring you out of the fire. Cut off ties from those who discourage you and bound yourself with those who encourage you. Stay motivated and achieve what your haters are drawing about. May you reach to the pinnacle of success?
(The author hails from Ganderbal in Central Kashmir)
