Mother is the most beautiful blessing for us
She is the sign of unbound and incomparable joy, where every one of us is feeling safe and secure and under her custody
Eijaz Mir
The word mother is the sweetest word among all the vocabularies existing in any form of language and diction. Mother is love, care and sympathy, precious feeling and a sense of joy forever. She is humble, sober and a hub for rejoicing souls, a bond of love which gives relief to all human beings.
She is the sign of unbound and incomparable joy, where every one of us is feeling safe and secure and under her custody everyone is representing with utmost sympathies. Mother is the most adorable among all the inhabitants living on this planet. She is joy, love and care of tired human souls. She always provides care, love and never complains of taking anything back.
She is always caring, selfless, and devotes her all services for our upbringing. She means sacrifice. She sacrifices her whole life for us without taking a single favour. She gives a sigh of relief to everyone and never takes anything back in return. Her love, compassion and sympathy for us is the world’s best ever wealth. It is such a treasure which can’t be counted in terms of numbers and data nor is there a device to measure this treasure. She is really the pious and sacred figure of the world.
The sacrifice through which a mother is passing throughout her life is of huge importance. Her contribution towards us is so amazing and incomparable. Her lifetime sacrifices are countless and her bond of love feelings towards us couldn’t be counted by any ways and means. There is no device or set of equipments through which such huge life saving sacrifices of a mother could be measured or counted.
Such sacrifices are mind blowing and heart wrenching too. The way a mother is passing through innumerous pains is also a sort of question having no answer. From her beginning of pregnancy period, she is bearing life staking pains. She takes her baby in her womb for a period of nine months, speaks itself how she enable herself to bear inside her another body and soul.
Through this period, the pain she is going through is hardly felt and sensed by any other creature of the universe. Her sacrifice does not end here, but it increases every passing minute. Giving birth to her baby is not less than a feeling like witnessing death. What she bears while delivering a baby, none of us could even think of and the pain which she is encompassing through that period is also a mere concept before us, but it’s practical approach is known to a mother only. Her sacrifices are huge and unimaginable forever.
These set of sacrifices increases more and more. She doesn’t stop here at all and her infinite sacrifices with pious obligations spreads all over the world like mercies and blessings. She starts to nurture her children with utmost care and love. While nurturing her children, she starts to grow weaker and wrinkles start to appear on her face. Her facial beauty and charm starts to vanish.
While her baby is starting to grow on her breast milk, her beautiful figure starts to weaken and she starts growing older and older. Thus her toll of sacrifices is increasing continuously. Such challenges and examinations are only survived by a mother and she stands up with utmost bravery before them.
She faces a number of challenges every minute. During every challenge a mother has to go through innumerable sacrifices. She bears all even and odds to overcome all challenges, even at every single challenge she starts to lose her charm and energy. But she never demands to stop, her determination, will power and love for us never ends and she never complains.
Her unending devotion of service and sacrifice towards her children never starts to weaken. On the contrary, she proves an angel, not less than a sea full of mercies and blessings. Her children are her first priority; even she doesn’t eat a single morsel of food in their absence. She treats her children like delicate flowers of the garden.
The sympathies of a mother never begin to lose charm and shine for the children. Every day her tokens of love, care and sympathies reach the heights of selfless service. Even though whatever age her children are reaching at. She doesn’t not see the age of her children but in their faces she only sees a son or a daughter.
She is never demanding. She is never complaining. She is never angry. Her sympathies overcome and overpower her anger. Her blessings and merciful attitude never starts to decrease. She is continuously showering her lots of love and care upon us. Her toll of sacrifices could not be counted. She is really the best, the most adorable and the sweetest person in our lives.
However, ironically what has been our attitude towards our mother’s is not less than a shock and tragedy. The incidents and reports available before us in the form of various data and resource is wrenching the pious hearts of those mother’s who served tirelessly for us and in return they have received only the worst.
Even though the whole world celebrated mother’s day with craze and charm, but in many cases the situation is not as rosy as has been presented by us. We give gifts as tokens of love to our mother’s on this day. We make show off to communicate before the world that our mother’s are our highest level of fame and honour. On this day cakes are baked and served and colourful gifts are distributed among mothers. But reality is totally vice versa of what is being shown on the platforms or stages.
In fact every passing day is a doomsday for a mother. The growing material aspects overpowered us chiefly and we lost our rich heritage and culture. Once upon a time, people would not bear a day’s separation from mother. But look at the present living societies where people don’t even want their mothers with them for a single day.
Isn’t it a disaster, the mother who has sacrificed her life for us is being sent to old age homes? The people have enough time to spend with friends, girl friends etc. but have no single hour for their mothers.
It is hurting, when we see the mothers begging on the streets and their children marrying and spending money for enjoyment. On one hand, mothers are struggling for a single penny while as people are spending hundreds of pennies on the breakfast of friends. Some incidents are so shocking, when people dragged out mothers from their houses as well.
Seeing such incidents and episodes occurring in human societies is wrenching human hearts. Unfortunately, this is what we are giving to our pious mothers in return to their millions of sacrifices for us.
In my opinion, every one of us is bound with moral obligations and responsibilities to look after our aged parents. They have served and sacrificed their lives for us. If we are rich today, it is all because of them. Mothers need us in their old age. She is the way to paradise. If we broke her sentiments, we block the way of paradise forever for us. In one of the Hadith, it is said,” paradise lies beneath the feet of mothers.”
The reality lies in the fact that every single day is a special mother’s day. We should give huge applauses to our mother’s contribution. They have done commendable jobs and their sacrifices have no match in this universe. I applause and give huge salutations to my beloved mother and all the mothers of the world for their huge contribution.
May you all live long and enrich us with your holy blessings. Ameen.